Sex toys for her

Where to start if this is your first

A bullet is the usual first toy, and for good reason: small, quiet, easy to hold, and it does one thing well. An air-pulse rose is the other common starting point — it works on suction rather than vibration, which some people find far more intense and others find too much. A wand is the most powerful of the three and the least discreet.

None of these is better than the others. They suit different bodies, and the honest answer to "which one" is usually the cheapest one that matches what you already know you like.

What it costs, and what you are paying for

Price mostly tracks motor quality, battery and material. Below a certain point, sellers save money on exactly the things you cannot see — the material against your skin and the charging circuit. That is why we name the material on every page.

Using it well

Use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys; silicone lubricant degrades silicone over time. Start on the lowest setting — most people find the strongest setting is for later, not for starting. And give yourself privacy and time; nothing here works well in a hurry.

Common questions

Which toy should I buy first?

A rechargeable bullet, in most cases: it is the least expensive way to find out what you like, it is quiet enough for a shared home, and it stays useful even after you own something bigger.

Will the package show what is inside?

Orders ship from Abuja in plain, unbranded packaging with nothing on the outside that says what is inside or who it is from. Delivery is by name only — your rider brings it to your door, your gate or a pickup point you choose. Most Nigerian cities receive orders in two to four days; Abuja is often same or next day.

How do I clean a vibrator?

Warm water and a mild, unscented soap after every use, then let it dry completely before it goes away. Silicone toys can also be wiped with a toy cleaner. Never boil or bleach anything with electronics inside, and store toys apart from each other rather than in one drawer jumble.

Can I use any lubricant with it?

Water-based, yes, with everything. Silicone lubricant should not be used on silicone toys — it breaks the surface down over time. Oil is fine on skin but not with condoms.

Is it legal to buy sex toys in Nigeria?

Buying a sex toy for your own private use as an adult is an ordinary, legal purchase in Nigeria. We ship discreetly because privacy is your business, not because there is anything to hide. Our guide to the legal position goes through it properly.