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Desire & Libido: Why It Fades and How to Increase It

Desire isn't a fixed setting — it rises and falls with your hormones, stress, sleep, medication and season of life. If yours has gone quiet and you're wondering how to increase libido, the honest first step is understanding why it changed, because it's rarely a personal failing.

Read the documented reasons in low libido in women — the reasons it's not you, and if a partner's involved, how to talk to your partner about sex toys turns a nervous conversation into a way to reconnect.

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How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex Toys
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How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex Toys

Suggesting a toy can feel more nerve-wracking than buying one. Here's how to talk to your partner about sex toys — what to say, when, and how to keep it about connection, not replacement.